What does selfish people need?

If a person is selfish, do they know? can they do anything about it alone or do they need someone to tell them to stop. i guess, if someone told me serious, "pernilla, i think you should think about not being so selfish," in a good way and coming from someone i trust, i would try to change. right?

i dont know what to write about. i dont have any inspiration. i feel empty.

i have a very brave friend. i never see her almost, but i know she is there. she has a bun in the oven. everything that can happen (almost) has happen to her in the bad sentence... but she fights, has a heart of gold and is strong. a big hug to you! you know who you are.